Just for hookups
Most likely, it’s because they don’t want to introduce you to their friends because they don’t foresee you being around for the long haul. By skipping the sleepover, they also skip the bedtime cuddles, pillow talk, and cutesy breakfast in the morning—which is all relationship stuff that they don’t want with you. But if they won’t accept your requests, they don’t want you involved in their personal life at all.
[Read: 10 reasons why guys run away after sleeping with you] #9 No post-sex cuddling ensues. If they’re hittin’ it and quittin’ it right away *AKA: running out the door after without so much as a warm embrace for you* then you’re just a hookup and nothing more. This clearly means that they’re not interested in you for anything other than sex. If you end up running into them while at the mall, or out with some friends, and they’re deliberately pretending they didn’t see you—or even ignoring you calling their name, it’s because they don’t want to be seen with you.
And if they’re making it a point to make sure you know, they’re probably hoping you don’t want more or won’t ask for more. If they refer to you as their “friend with benefits” or any other terms that can be used to describe someone that they only hookup with and have no feelings for, then that’s the clearest sign there can be.
They obviously don’t want anything more than what your involvement is: a hookup.
If you’re only seeing them for a few hours, and most of that time is spent in your pants, then it’s safe to say that they’re not into spending time with you doing anything else. No “baby,” “honey,” “cutie,” or any of those couple names are ever used when the two of you are communicating.
That’s because those names are meant for people in a relationship or that want to be—which they don’t. If your sex leaves you wanting more, and you feel like they don’t care how satisfied you are, then you’re probably just a hookup.
And that’s probably because they don’t want to have to tell you that they’re only in it for the sex.
Signs you’re just a hookup and nothing else I have a good friend who, for some odd reason, doesn’t like to date girls.
He always sticks them in the “hookup” category and gets on with his life of boning them and then having nothing else to do with them.
[Read: 10 scenarios when it’s the perfect time for that relationship talk] #6 They avoid texting/calling until later in the day.
When you’re waking up to zero texts or calls from them and you still haven’t gotten a response to your “good morning” until after dinner time, you’ve probably come across someone only interested in a hookup.This shows that they have very little interest in being close to you…unless they’re going to pound town. This may be because they don’t want people to think you’re together.